While vulnerability taught me to not being rigid or hard with myself no longer, I started asking me what is this teaching me. What can I learn from this. Or better: what is here for me to learn specifically?
After many many many years, I caught myself that I was not seeing my value in that situation. This was a reminder. I wasn't
seeing my own worth. This came crystal clear because of the behavior of the other person in front of me and because of mine towards myself. Even if we knew one another on a deep level.
Why was I experiencing this?
It was a wonderful (and painful) reminder that on that level I had to fully embody my worth from within again. Why on earth would the person in front of me be able to perceive it for
themselves? It wasn't there to be recognized simply because I was not acknowledging this within myself first. And they didn't perceive their own self-worth for themselves either.
Have you been experiencing this as well?
Too long I have been loyal to things and people that were not seeing my value, mainly because I wasn't operating from it within me.
Rather
confronting, isn't it?
What are your thoughts on this? On seeing your self-worth? Being taken for granted, overlooked or misunderstood. And how this may have impacted us? Let me know. I am more than happy to hear your thoughts.
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For those of you who want to know more:
So where did I go then to be able to acknowledge this within myself?
I did what I needed to do and focus on the deeper work within myself.
Building trust. Rebuilding my foundation. Processing my emotions. Taking responsibility to what was shown, even more for something very dear to my heart. Repeat the work, love myself even more, especially when my mind took me to victim mindset. We don't do that anymore. Aligning
with a version of me that knows she is worthy and how that looks like. That's what this is.
That is exactly what we move through in deep detail in our program Truth Core Essence. You can read more here.
Watch a short video on my youtube
channel to receive some more insight: https://youtu.be/Mep7eiqQDiI
Have you been lingering lately on how to improve a specific area of life?
I realized that any work I earlier did on myself did not shift the needle when it excluded
self-identity work, my emotions and my own internal unconscious conversations with myself. Or learning how to catch my thoughts. Processing dominant emotional states. Meeting myself at a depth so I could finally see and hear myself first an foremost.
In true honesty, only then you move towards a life that represents you for who you truly are.
At a depth where you deserve it. At your core. Why? At
least then and only then you know for yourself the truth of what you stand for because you met yourself in your worth.
Is this something that you would be interested in if I were to share with you how you can do this?
As I was reconnecting with my peace and trust within, even though circumstances may not be what I deeply longed for, I accessed this unshakeable clarity within, that I know that I
always figure out the things I am figuring out when they appear. That I can trust myself and show up to who I authentically am.
I know I always make those choices and actions that reflect my worth within, so automatically things, people, opportunities and environments are showing up in my life accordingly as I could realign. They always do. Only because I didn't reject of abandon myself any longer based on that one experience or previous
ones.
Do you feel me on this one?